Thursday, October 2, 2014

Well, today is Jarek's birthday so I sent him 2 dozens of doughnuts to share with his district and two ties and a pair of shorts. His grandma Blackhurst also sent him some money and treats. It's been hard to celebrate his bday with him not here. I miss him tonz today. You know, I understood but never quite grasp the parable about Jesus leaving the 99 sheep and going to find the one but I had a light bulb moment and I wasn't even thinking about it. I was just driving to one of my many destinations when I realized that Jesus was trying to say that he loved each one of those sheep so much and knew them each literally, and entirely that when the one had disappeared he felt the void that, that one filled. I guess in my mind I was thinking of them as just sheep and not realizing that it's hard not to miss someone when you love them entirely and they have a purpose in YOUR life, that when they are not there, there is a void that can't be filled til they are back.

 I have my four kids and you would think that with only one of them gone the rest would still keep me busy enough that I wouldn't really noticed that one is gone but THAT IS NOT THE CASE. I feel the emptiness that Jarek fills. His smile, his sarcasm when I don't get something he said, his correcting me when I use teenage vocabulary wrong, the joy on his face when he eats the food I cook b/c we share a love for food, his willingness to do things even when I ask him to do it last minute.and really so much more. Him taking Kira to Harts every time he picks her up from school when I can't. Kira even says it's not the same as when Jarek takes her...ok, I get it. I had to experience the feeling to fully understand why Jesus would leave the 99 and go look for the 1 that is missing. Not that He love the 99 less just that any one soul that is lost is a huge deal because he loves them completely, knows them completely, and has a role in His plan therefore He wants to find them and bring them back to they can fill that emptiness. Whoa....I know...kinda deep coming from me.

His email from today Oct. 2nd:

 Hey everyone!

Thanks all for the Birthday Wishes! Week 4 is now in the books it was a lot of fun as usual. We had nothing really all that new this week just the usual devotionals class and Role-play. The biggest change to our role-play with our PI's is that we can't use our book that had pre-made sentences, I was kind of scared at the beginning but am glad that we did it. My goal for this week was to learn 42 new words a day and review the 42 from the other day so that it would be harder to forget them. I'm probably going to increase to 56 new words a day, as well as learning some kind of grammar structure everyday. I have probably one of the best knowledge of words in my class but I still struggle a bit putting it into the correct grammar structure, I can say a lot of simple things with ease, bearing testimony and praying with the vocab and grammar I know is pretty easy and I am almost to the point where I can say almost anything I want to in an English prayer, so that is pretty nice:) I was challenged by my teacher yesterday to find out how to ask deeper questions because I was able to one on one role play with him because we had an odd number in class because 3 Elders "were sick" (I don't think that the all the Elders were really sick 1 was he wouldn't miss class unless he really was like about to die, the other 2 really had poor excuses for being sick but o well that is my thinking I don't know how they feel so I can' judge them.) Back to the 1 on 1 role-play, I was able to ask really simple questions to make him think and answer but when we had our evaluation review he told me to work on asking more specific questions to help the investigator better.

The fun stuff for the week, My and my companion had an Ice cream eating contest on Sunday evening, he had 8 bowls of ice cream, I had 8 and 1/2, It was a fun competition I guess there were a lot of people watching, it was the first time that I have had ice cream in the MTC and probably the last time. One of the elders in our district set his alarm for 6 on Tuesday night and it went of Wednesday morning and Thursday morning because he couldn't find it was annoying but really funny because my companion jumped out of bed both times running to his alarm clock to turn it off because it was habit for him to do that, so it was pretty funny to watch him run to the clock try to turn it off but to no avail because it wasn't his alarm clock:) One of the elders said ai shitai to one of the teachers which means "I want to love you" and not just like really like someone but the biblical sense of 'Adam knew Eve' so our teacher laughed pretty hard, as well as the rest of us when we figured out what it meant.

Hmmm.... A song from heritage tours "I believe there are angels among us" it says 'Oooh I believe there are angels among us, sent down too us from somewhere up above, they come to you and me in our darkest hour to show us how to live, to teach us how to give, to guide us with the light of love.' I love this song and I was reminded of it by a talk that was giving on Tuesday by sis. Schweitzer she told us that we have angels around us to help us through the hard times, when I think back to learning this language and all the stuff I have done in just the short 4 weeks I have been here I know that the ones that we love who have passed on here helping me when its hard for me to do something, and I know that the Lord has played a huge role in helping me learn the language, there would be no way that I would be right here without the spirit and the Lord on my side. I know that angels and Loved ones are there to help all of us in our hardest times of life, also that all you need to do is ask God for help he wants to help you, he has so many blessings in store for everyone. The picture of 'Jesus at the Door' is one of my favorites, he wants to help us and bless us but there is no handle for him to open the door on his side, we have to answer the door figuratively and let him in so he can bless us.

I love you all!!
-Elder Stevens
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 Anyway, his email from last week, Last week September 25:

Another great week done in the MTC! Now officially the longest time I've been from home I think?? Anyway had a lot of great things happen, my companion and I had another fake investigator baptism, and I'll say it again, even though it is a fake baptism it feels so great to get someone to commit to baptism, it really just makes me so excited for a real baptism and progressing investigator (PI), our lessons are getting a lot better in nihongo (japanese) we are able to say a lot with out the book even though they are pretty simple sentence structure comments and questions being able to do a lot with out the book is crazy. We also had another great devotional we had M. Russell Ballard come and talk to us!! Two apostles in my 3 weeks here!! Its crazy and super awesome, his talk was so uplifting and he reminded me why i am here who i represent and what kind of job i am doing? it was a good self check as a well as confidence boost, I know I'm only three weeks in but it is good to be reminded to start good habits now so we can keep them later into our missions.

"watashi wa jibun no maue ni taiyo no kagayaki nimo massatte kagayaite hikari no hashira o mita. so shite, sono hikari no hashira wa shidai ni orite kite. So shite, sono hikari wa tsui ni watashi ni furisosoida. Hikari ga watashi no ue ni todomatta toki watashi wa hisshi ni tsukushigatai kagayaki to eiko o motsu futari no okata ga watashi no ue no kuchu ni tatta orareru no o mita. suru to sono uchi no ohitokata ga watashi ni katarikake, watashi no na o yobi betsu no okata o sashite. 'kore wa watashi no aisuru ko de aru, kara ni kikinasai' to iwareta."

My japanese spelling isn't perfect but i did memorize this, this week it is the first vision in nihongo. The spirit that is carried by this message is so strong, for every and especially missionaries memorized the first vision, it is such a strong testimony of reality of Joesph Smith and what happened in the grove, I swear every time I hear it i get goosebumps, and it doesn't even matter what language it is said in I still get goosebumps. I sang in the MTC choir and we sung "Joseph Smith's first Prayer" we sung it for Elder Ballard which was amazing, and he told us of the importance of this message.

I was also able to host this week, I hosted an Elder from Fiji he was going to Arizona, he was so cool and spiritual and just so grateful for everyting!! I was also able to see Elder Ethan Johnson while he was passing by I wish I would have been able to host him but at least I was able to see him.

Anyways those are the big highlights of the week, other wise it is the usual, 10 hours a day in the class learning how to teach and learning nihongo.
 
Love ya'll

Elder Stevens



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